still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Whatnow-good one about the eggs! You remembered that typo! lol!
Thanks for showing me what's to come in upcoming years- yesterday I was bummed but it wan't about me wanting to feel appreciated it was family stuff that I don't feel like typing (lazy) combined with WH.

Hey on the topic of family, of all 8 grandchildren, I wasthe only one married and only 3 (myself included) have had long term relationships. All of us are products of divorce! The cycle is real. But I plan to discuss this with my therapist- like my new friend said the other day, S can learn what he DOESN'T want and will do his darndest either to not have kids or to stay married so they don't need to go back and forth between homes. I would need to remind him that you can carefully look for your spouse and read about issues that lead to higher risks for divorce and but it can still happen.The other person can still leave you- NO I shouldn't say that.

FM- What a good idea to say "I need space" I really like it because it is mysterious! And it doesn't make me have to say "I need to detach from you" because why should he get to think I still love him? But I think between now and the divorce, I will avoid regular email communication. There really is enough time to talk about S when we exchange him.

Today is busy- first I need to clean up from yesterday's get together, then we have swim class, then I see my therapist, then I drop off the registration stuff at the daycare, take S to the parking lot, and go to the Martini bar!