Take a deep breath, and start again. In my experience, it's going to take quite some time to repair the damage. You do this by dropping the rope and giving the WAW time to miss you. They have to beleive that what you are doing is real and permanant.

This plants the seed of doubt in thier mind and takes time to grow.

Drop the rope!

Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08