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Not quite sure how to do the alt thing, I have a facebook account I think, never get on it, 2 friends last I checked. What do you do?

Gave her a massage this morning, she said that I did not have to do that, I said "I know I do not have to do it." She got up, and I said, "ah baby, come back and lay down," she said she did not want to sleep anymore, then came back and said, "do not call me baby, I know how you feel about me."

I asked, "what does that mean", she said that I called her bitch and other things (our blow up last week, do not remember saying all the names she said but I do remember apologizing for trying to hurt her with words.) I said, "I thought you accepted my apologies for that", she said, "I accept it but cannot forget it."

I came downstairs and apologized again for last week, and that I can call her baby anytime because you can't stop me, with a wink and a laugh.

I asked her if she was trying in this relationship, she said she was, and I told her good, I can't wait to see it, and went up.


She asked where I went last night, and I did not tell her,as she was shaving my back. (ooooh, I know, it is not too hairy though) should I tell her where I went or should I keep her guessing?

AOS today, I will think about it and do one..>

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Not quite sure how to do the alt thing, I have a facebook account I think, never get on it, 2 friends last I checked. What do you do?
Become a fan of DB and let me know when you have done that.


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Great Mother's Day, I am pretty sure she prefers gift giving, as she went to a friend's house on Saturday, I cleaned the whole downstairs and she barely said anything, then I gave her this bracelet for Mother's Day and she went on and on about it and thanked me several times.

Went and played golf together yesterday afternoon and had a good time. Asked her again for a little nookie last night and she said no thanks and I went to sleep, maybe Im getting use to it.

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Great Mother's Day, I am pretty sure she prefers gift giving, as she went to a friend's house on Saturday, I cleaned the whole downstairs and she barely said anything, then I gave her this bracelet for Mother's Day and she went on and on about it and thanked me several times.


This tells me that her LL is definitely Gift Giving, and not AOS.

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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
This tells me that her LL is definitely Gift Giving, and not AOS.Puppy
Well that is a step in the right direction, at least you pretty much know where to direct your efforts.


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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
This tells me that her LL is definitely Gift Giving, and not AOS.Puppy
Well that is a step in the right direction, at least you pretty much know where to direct your efforts.


Yep -- HUGE PAYCHECKS. smirk

Sorry, Burt -- couldn't resist.

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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Yep -- HUGE PAYCHECKS. Puppy

Pup didn't you hear that I am TRIPLING your paycheck from DB!


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quick . . . what's 3 x 0??? cool

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Got big news from the second job, 30 days away from big payday...All to the gift taker I guess, lol...

We're going to make it I think, but it has been rough on this ole boy...

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We're going to make it I think, but it has been rough on this ole boy...



Sure, as long as you can keep the big checks coming in. But I honest think if the two of you don't address your CORE issues, you're going to be right back to the trouble spot.

Puppy

P.S. Congrats on the score, Burt ol' boy! I don't mean to be a wet blanket. As one sales guy to another, I know that's a great feeling.

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