Sorry, D. I thought I had replied to your comment but I never actually hit "Send".

First of all thanks for such an extensive reply. Good advice in there.

The msg I sent on the weekend said:
You wanted an opportunity to talk. Sunday 12 PM. X Cafe.

Which I agree with Gno, comes across as arrogant. And it made me feel as if I that screwed up the last chance I had.

Then, I remembered what were the actual last words I said to her:

In person when we said good bye at the airport:
"I'm sorry, princess. I'm sorry that it had to come to this. Pls let me prove to you that I'm still the man you marry. That I can be the man you want in your life. No more promises. Just actions. Let this be the first one. Giving you what you need right now. Space."

And my very last words were on the phone, when exposing:

"You told me you needed a real man. Well, you see, real men don't cheat on their wives and kids. Real, honest men, protect their families. And that's what I am going to do"

and you know what? On second thought, I think I can live with that.

Last edited by FormelyknownasF; 05/10/10 12:47 PM.

Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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