You will cycle Shel.I have been doing that for 10 months.My D asked if I still loved him and I said yes but there were days I could kill him for what he has done.
He def sounds as if he is in MLC.I think these men forget how wll w know them and that they cannot hide all of their feelings.I am sure life at his M's wont be easy either and he is getting lots of time to think..
Its crazy.I was telling Piano that my neighbour got the bomb Fri night after her H had a (allegedly) one night stand when he was away on business.She is determined to see a lawyer about D today.She is livid...God whats in the air, its all I am hearing at the mo.(((hugs)))


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith