And is she not still with the affair buddy? The one you said she was planning to marry? Cause if she is, that is not a good sign for him that she is trolling the dating sites! Duh...
she is still very much with affair buddy, when i lived at the house and would still read her e-mails, and texts whatnot her and affair buddy's R is anything but solid (obvious!) They fight and take turns being children by ignoring each other and not talking for a few days. Those times XW would come to me and say things like "we don't have to D" or "can't we just live like this and see what happens?" etc.!!
Oh well, I forget who to give credit to but reading the other night one of us said it best "can't fix broken, can't fix crazy"
and I like that BBJ I think I will sign off from now on with
GO CARDS!
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
Hmmm, not sure why but just kinda bumming around today, first weekend that I will absolutely not be able to see S2 for an extended period so I am sad.
Interesting thing, I have been on a couple of dates with a girl who is also D'd and has 2 little boys at home--from what she says her XH and her friends who have gone thru similar things say that the XH's could care less about their kiddos and really just grip about child support?!
Not trying to put myself on a pedestal I just don't understand how anyone could not want to see their flesh and blood all the time possible ecspecially when they are so young???
..................Grrrr............
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
Not trying to put myself on a pedestal I just don't understand how anyone could not want to see their flesh and blood all the time possible ecspecially when they are so young???
Saw this one on failblog a while back. Falls into the same category of people that should be sterilized...
Kerry Wow! I hope that is a prank---no way can that really be serious??
G--none of her business for sure but still just jaw dropping unbelievable that XW could even fathom (even in her wrold) giving that "advice" out all things considering.......
On other news back over at the old house for my days with S2 only to find out that XW has taken ALL of his personal care items (shampoo, toothpaste, soap, etc..)I call her on it and she acts laddy dah about it and says "well you can go get your own to use"......Not the point I know that I can, but do you think you could have told me that you plan on acting like a 3 year old yourself XW?
It is getting to the point where I just HATE her. I need to get some perspective on how I am going to deal with this for the near future and the long term parenting future that will come with her.
Ending with good news, apparently I am a catch of sorts, NF (new friend!) is so far very into me, and was telling me how her girlfriends were all asking her if I had any single friends b/c they all think I am such a great guy!!.....So I have them fooled for now as well!!!
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
Well I cannot sleep well tonight so I thought I would update. Today was a hard day as even though it was "Mother's Day" it was still a lonely day and like others the thought that this was "unfair" struck with me again.
The difference was the "unfair" feeling I felt was 100% for S2 and not me. I think that I will be able to move on and live a great life still. I also know that is still going to happen for S2 but gosh how much more difficult is it going to be for him due to his mothers selfish choices.....??
XW is particularly selfish and repulsive right now. Our custody agreement is that I have S2 every Mon-Tues, XW has him every Wed-Thur, and we trade off every other Fri-Mon morning. So last weekend was her weekend, this weekend was Mothers day so per the decree she gets him and than next weekend she has her regular weekend (fathers day will be the same situation for me in reverse) so I am missing S2 and asked her to give me a day with him either Sun, or Wed last week to get to spend some time and reminded her that this was going to be the case in reverse later during fathers day-------she told me to "deal with it, tough s***!!!"
What a peach of a woman this XW has turned into!
H: 30 W: 31 S: 2 T/M: 6/4 D Final 4-5-10
Bomb: June 09 Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?
