She is bouncing from one side to the other. She doesn't know what she wants yet. This is good for now, but one bad day and she could bounce the other way. MC is a good idea. Retrouvaille would be a big step, because it would give her the whole weekend to think about what she wants and then make a decision, and the reinforcement to help her stick with it. Check out those MCs first and make sure they are not of the "happiness is the most important thing" kind.