Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

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Hi BD, been engrossed in your updates... it's kind of incredible what's happening in your sitch.
When you say you feel 'more you' and calmer when you are with him, I can sense it. You feeling more composed, that it?

Tell me, how did you arrive at the place of no anger? Was it by popping on new lenses in order to view your sitch? (or reading up on MLC? Do you think he is MLC?). Please tell!

I am still furious with my H sometimes, but I think that's the OW factor... :-( I've always maintained if he dropped her, we'd still be up sh!t creek without a paddle but we'd still have a better chance of riding this out.

Sorry, I digressed.

DBing, they say, is about doing what works. You need to sit back and watch this over a good couple of weeks. Keep those expectations low as you say, just to be on the safe side.

Cudos to you anyway!