Honey you will most likely never be over him. It's normal. Just like you, half my life was with her and she will always be a part of me even if I find another love. At least I will be honest about it. But I can love another.
Yeah had a date as well. Nothing serious. She was also divorced.
Us "dates" tend to always talk about the "ex-dates". She did as well. It comes naturally because being married to X is all of our history and all we knew. Otherwise we would be talking about the weather or our jobs. At least the drama is interesting.
I am glad to see you back Cautious but was hoping it would be for better reasons.
Sadly I recently confirmed that my XW has been having an emotional affair (and maybe PA) for quite some time, even before the bomb so I am still dealing with this emotionally. Just when I got used to the idea of being divorced I get bomb #2. Only thing that will save me is detaching but Im having a hard time of it.
I hope your sitch gets better. At least you have hope. All I have is an usure future ahead of me.
I hope you date more. Being with another woman seems to be the only thing that takes my X off my mind 100%. Sad but true. But I am dating for the right reason. Companionship, friendship and honesty etc.
Good luck.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
