Yes, the links make the materials SO much more accessible. I also really like seeing the titles of books people recommend. I have read many books recommended here, but the one that has had the biggest impact on me is "Intimacy and Desire" by David Schnarch. This was published last fall and to me seems more accessible than "Passionate Marriage" by the same author (just my personal preference). Moving forward after divorce I really needed a compass to guide me in how to become the best partner I can be in the future. This book gives a roadmap, including information about how to develop a healthy $exual relationship (the last 1/4 of the book). The author has been a $ex therapist for 30 yars, but I like the way he relies on true intimacy (honest sharing between partners), rather than on techniques, to form the basis of a healthy $exual relationship.