Babydoll your H is acting like a Husband! I don't get it. I am really thinking he will come around. But I don't know how you would manage letting him kiss you, massage you, etc without being in such turmoil! Isn't is so confusing?
Do you have boundaries? Or do you want them? I don't see what you could do to mess up your chances for R...other than hound him about the relationship. And you aren't doing that.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004