In the past I have been very reactive. I now realize that, and started realizing it not long before our separation due to a book I read.

When is an ok time to apologize to my H for the reactivity I've had during our entire relationship? It's important for me to apologize (I'm in IC), but not sure if he can hear it during MLC.

We had underlying issues before his MLC.

Thanks

M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years