My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

When I talk to the OMW at church, she says she is using something called "Marraige Fitness", a program she paid some $400 for and she is now thinking about getting a counselor too. I don't know much about her program except that is seems to promote being nice to the spouse and she was very hesitant when I suggested detaching and not pursuing, but I did recommend the DB books and she sounded interested.

My wife and the OM stay home from church and talk to each other on the phone unless we go out of town for the weekend. The OM also calls once or twice a day while I work on weekdays. (My wife isn't calling him much anymore, but does occasionally.)

I haven't spoken to the OMW about exposing yet, but I can do that next weekend. I can't email or call because most likely the OM will receive the email or call.

I don't really have too many people to expose to, just a three or four that I know and possibly three or four that I don't know on his FB.

The church elders and pastor have spoken to the OM in the past about this and he ignores them. I may be able to persuade them to speak to him again - just not sure it would do any good.

On a side note, we had a pretty good Mother's Day. The kids gave cards and a gift to her and we went to a Mother's Day lunch sponsored by the church. She also spoke by phone to her sister, who just served Divorce papers to her husband and suffers from depression. We also have friends that just went through a divorce. Not a lot of positive role models around us unfortunately.