Thanks NM! I just don't want to sound controlling!

Forgot to mention that it was OW's Dad's obituary DIL found...he apparently died at the age of 47 in 2002. It mentions in it that he liked to camp and fish with his family (that is something WE did) and also that he raised quarter horses (which my H has always had disdain for horse people...idk why...)

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing