CW- I am sorry that you are feeling down, too but it also made me relieved to hear that you feel the same thing!
I did forget to mention that I rearranged the weekend visit with WH so I could go to the zoo brew. BUt I can't go kayaking. S is going through MAJOR separation anxiety right now so it is hard to leave him with someone else plus WH will have dropped him off the day before and then I would leave S the next day for 6 hours??? "My" day with him? Oh well- the kayaking is always open and I can suggest it for an outing with a friend or a date one day.
My SIL is watching him for me when I go to therapy so I really hope he doesn't suffer too much in the 2 hours she is with him tomorrow!!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004