EWWWW about the OW and age difference with your H!!! But I am not surprised in a way and bet that there is some hang up with her dad...I wonder how often it is the case for OWs.

Anyway your idea of bringing up the schedule sounds perfect! We know how to talk to our H's best--how they will receive info best!!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004