Actually I believe that your H and his mistress don't talk about the pregnancy. They say people in affairs compartmentalize- talk about reality and spouses is depressing and not sexy...and it makes the OP jealous...so I doubt they talk about it too much.

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My DB coach says friendship's the step before anything else ... I'm not so sure about that? Not an uber sexy idea.


Someone else who was helping me with my sitch said the same thing...that being friends will help be the step before reconciling. Hmm.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004