My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

Thanks, I need to find out where the OM goes. I see the OMW about once a week at church and we talk briefly about the sitch and what to do about it. Maybe I can find out from her where he goes.

The OM has a few friends on FB that I don't know and a few that I know from church. I was just going to expose to the ones I do know because of what Puppy said. I don't want to take a chance of making things worse somehow. I was just going to use the script you suggested, Allen. Not sure what I could do to make it better.

I do feel like I need to do SOMETHING at this point. I feel like I'm in limbo and I need to stir up the hornet's nest again since it's not quite where I want it. She still talks to the OM by phone.

I haven't been pursuing my wife lately, and we hardly make any physical contact. Other than that, we are getting along just fine for the last few weeks.

I went to see a lawyer a couple days ago about getting a temporary separation order. He was fairly new and got out the books to read up on it. He didn't really tell me anything I didn't already know. I guess we'd have to decide who gets what and when either of us gets the kids, etc. If I go through with this, I guess I'd have to discuss these things with my wife.