I am so sad for your children that they are being emotionally abandoned by their father this way. How horrifying for them, and for you as their mother.
And I am sad for you that you are being treated this way. You deserve so much better.
Stuff like this lowers my faith in people. I`m sure if your H had seen himself acting this way on the day that he married you, he would have been horrified at his own potential for selfishness and meanness.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.