Ok, so let's see if I can remember everything that has happened this weekend. It started out bad, but has ended w/ H going to the ER b/c he feels so totally crappy, but as far as our R is, completely fine & wonderful (and I'm not being saracastic
Anyway, so we go to H's mom's Friday night for his sister's college graduation (she's 30-something & is graduating after 15 yrs, but wanted her entire family, including cousins to be there & to give herself a huge party). Now, let me also back up b/c this comes into play here. We went down to SA awhile back, maybe a month or so ago. I had found a text where his sister had texted H asking if it was ok if she invited his ex-fiance from before me b/c she was still friends w/ her & would that make anyone uncomfortable. WHAT THE HE@@??!! I'll just stop there & cont on the next paragraph.
Ok, so I found this text a few wks to a mnth before this weekend we were there awhile back & we were all to go to the zoo together. Well, up to this point, I had not decided what to do w/ the intel I had (although H already knew I knew & knew I had been looking at his phone b/c I told him). Anyway, I finally decided I would just be honest w/ her, so on the phone before we were to go to the zoo, I just told her calmly that I was a bit irritated w/ her over the whole text b/c I would have expected her to have a bit more respect for ME to ask ME how I would feel about his ex-fiance being there. She had never asked to invite her to anything before & H and I have been married for almost 11 yrs! Why all of a sudden now? And why did she not ask me as well; did she not think my feelings about the matter meant anything? I mean this party was at H's mom's HOUSE, very intimate surroundings (house & backyard) not like I wasn't going to run into her or something. Did she REALLY think I wanted his ex-fiance at this party --- especially w/ how many times he has cheated on me???
Ok, H is back from ER so I have to go for now. More later. Man, I haven't even gotten to this weekend yet!!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
