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TG - thank you so much, that's so nice of you to take the time to wish me Happy Mother's day smile

I would like to wish all moms on this board a HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY. Enjoy your children today...we all have so much to be thankful for...let's not loose track of that even while we are in the middle of the MLC hurricane.

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Mila, I hope that hedge of thorns is nice and thick and sharp

Mine are huge, they will do a lot of damage to whoever tries to cross them wink


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Had a great Mother's Day with D16. She gave me a beautiful handmade card and what she wrote made me very emotional.

"Happy Mother's Day Mommy! You are the best mom in the whole world! I know that you are going through a lot and I'm sorry. But you are still the best and you are handling everything really, really well! I hope you enjoy your present! I love you! xoxo

I love her so much...and this is what it all about...

We've spent most of the day together...girly day...had manicures and pedicures done and went to lunch together. Great mother & daughter day <3 <3 <3

D has to go to work tonight and I think that I will go to the movies...all by myself smile


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Sounds like a very nice mother/daughter day! Enjoy the movies!


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Aren't Ds great? Mine gave me so much affirmation when things first went south. Then I heard from them how well I was dealing with the situation (along with an occasional 2x4, I confess). Today I had flowers and long phone calls. They have been incredible through this, in spite of their own disillusionment. I am so grateful that they are in my life.

I went out for a nice dinner tonight by myself. I would have preferred company, but enjoyed it anyway, talking sporadically with an older couple at the next table over a huge Bourbon Manhattan (struggled not to order a 2nd) and fresh seafood.

We all have things we can choose to be thankful for, with or without our partners. I choose my Ds first among all.


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Thank you CW & Twink
Just came back from the movies, went to see Date Night - with Steve Carell and Tina Fey, light fun movie...just what the doctor ordered. It was a little heavy on the married couple interactions...got me emotional a few times...but overall glad I went.

Twink, glad that your Ds are there for you...we all need to know that someone loves us and cares about us now that our Hs are rejecting us. You went to dinner by yourself & I went to movies by myself....I would have preferred to go with my H but enjoyed it anyway.


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I guess WH is alive, I'm receiving business related emails. Started arriving very early this morning...guessing he is in a different timezone visiting OW. Have to reply...it's business.


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Mila

Being with OW makes reality come calling much quicker........

Think of it as a positive, thats what I try to do! Every new day is a day less with them.

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Libby - that's interesting that's how you look at it as well...I realized that it has to come full circle and the more time they spend together the faster the fantasy ends....at least that's what I hope for.

You know, it's like the dog chasing a bus....what is he going to do with it when he catches it?...LOL


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I am liking the way you guys think!


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That dog chases the bus long enough, eventually he'll catch it and realize it's cold, hard steel and break his teeth.
Thinking of you.


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