He's out of his mind. He and the OW don't even talk about the baby? That's great for them. Avoiding the situation will make it go away-- NOT!

I'm really really glad he is committed to meeting the baby. I think he will not be able to use the word "regret" about her after seeing her besides saying he regrets not knowing her better!

You do have to wonder what goes through an OW's mind at the time of the birth. . .