JacT...if you truly feel you have a linked soul then you would remiss not to act upon that...to keep seeking what you want...until you either get it back...or KNOW WITHOUT DOUBT OR REGRET that you did all you could and that you both are now done...and I will tell you from personal experience that it is not something you will know in a few months or even a few years...when you have such a long term relationship with someone it is said that you need 1 year to every 7 that you are together to really work out and heal from the demise(if it does come to that)
But I still say, based upon what you have written here...I think you are in good standing to reconcile someday...MLC can take 7 yrs if it is a bad one...
