rysmom's story

[TrentC]

I called h last night and asked him not to come today because of mothers day. he said he wont come. I think im just going to give him his stuff or it will do irreperable damage to sitiuation.

What makes you think giving him what he wants is going to bring him back, especially when what he wants is to leave?

I think MrBond has a point... you don't seem to actually want to help yourself. People have been giving you all sorts of advice and suggestions, but you don't seem to follow any of it. You just come here and rail about how awful your life is.

This is like an AA meeting; you can't play us, because we've all been through what you are going through. We've all been there, and we've all gotten to here. But we all had to do what it took to save ourselves if we were ever going to save our marriage OR survive the divorce.

We can't do this for you. You have to do it yourself.