Abbey, Glimmerman - your words of wisdom are much appreciated. Will try the slow, positive approach at our earliest opportunity.

W came over this afternoon while I was working in the garden. Was very forlorn and depressed. Walking around the garden - her passion - petting the cat, being around the house seemed to do her some good. I was upbeat and positive. Feel better today than last night for sure.

Prairiegirl: I will have a beer with your H any time, but I think Glimmerman is the one with the wisdom!!!


Happy Mothers Day to all out there. Good day for a smile.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012