Abbey, Glimmerman - your words of wisdom are much appreciated. Will try the slow, positive approach at our earliest opportunity.
W came over this afternoon while I was working in the garden. Was very forlorn and depressed. Walking around the garden - her passion - petting the cat, being around the house seemed to do her some good. I was upbeat and positive. Feel better today than last night for sure.
Prairiegirl: I will have a beer with your H any time, but I think Glimmerman is the one with the wisdom!!!
Happy Mothers Day to all out there. Good day for a smile.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012