Thanks Lin.I will tak time to reflect on your wise words.I still feel I have a linked soul with my H but maybe thats just wishful thinking..take care(((hugs)))

ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith