I quit checking in on his secret MS page two days ago
I am of the opinion that once you know what's going on further snooping only hinders your ability to detach.
Originally Posted By: rlay1100
I keep wondering if he means it when he says he LOVES her and she is the love of his life. How can he feel that way when I am the one who was with him for the last 11 years and gave him two beautiful children?
If you have looked at the stages of LBS that OP gave you this is normal we question and question and then when we get answers we can start to heal. Just keep the focus on you and GALing. The more you remove yourself from his drama the better you will feel. The pain will be there for a while unfortunately.
In spite of this I hope you are having a nice Mother's Day!
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am