Everything was fine at the cinema with H and family.
Anyway off we went for our meal as planned. H went to the toilet before we left the cinema. When we got to the pub his text went off and low an behold another trip to the toilet! Let it go and didn't even acknowledge it. Carried on with light conversation validating what he said. Anyway another 20 minutes later another text and a few minutes later off to the toilet again. I have never seen anyone so well with such a bad need for the toilet....
He had been gone about 10mins and I went to get some drinks. I could see his arm in the corrider towards the mens toilet. I stood and watched him for a few minutes and I have to say he didn't look exactly thrilled to be talking to OW. He looked quite sullen. I wondered whether I should interrupt or not.
So I went through the door and the first time he saw me was when I was through the door. He went white! I said 'the children are wondering where you are and she has you all week but your children only have you for an hour or two' He was desperately trying to cover his phone up so she couldn't hear.
H said I am coming and boy he was back in his seat straight behind me. Don't know if he will run now. He certainly gave the impression he was uneasy when I aksed him to come back but when back at the table carried on the conversation as if nothing had happened.
So we will wait and see although as he left with S for the concert he wanted to know whether I would be up when he brought him back later tonight. Also he confirmed the plans for Wednesday and younger S parents evening. So who knows.
I have been worried that I was almost becoming the OW which was a worry. So I feel that I needed to make a stand about quality time with his children.
