rysmom, I'm so glad that your H didn't come for his 'items' today.
Sweetie, do you see a pattern with your posts? I could be off base, but is it possible (I've brought it up before) that your H is being extraordinarily cruel and jerking your chain? It seems he threatens you with something and then turns around and does something nice or thoughtful. It just keeps you off balance all the time. Could he be doing this for a purpose to further his own agenda for any reason you can think of?
