Just as I am reading your above post, DD18 storms in yelling "Dad won't answer his phone cuz he is busy with the ho! He is never here when I need him!" She is having a problem with her car and trying to fix it herself.
I said the same thing you did...Thanks for that....that there could be any number of reasons why he doesn't answer. I think we have to let them figure out what kind of relationship they are going to have with their dad, while supporting them and making sure their choices are based on thought rather than reacting to hurt. Poor dumplins. I hate to see this all hurt them too.
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