Hi JacT, not your neighbour too.. Lordy. My take on H is that he is in limbo and sad - not with me and family, and not with OW in other country. And he's sure how long limboland will last... He hopes to end as a 'friend' with me. I am afraid of giving him that because I see it as giving up my status of W! My DB coach says friendship's the step before anything else ... I'm not so sure about that? Not an uber sexy idea. OW must be freaked. He tells me he doesn't talk about the pregnancy/baby with her. Could that be so????? When I have suggested OW must be disgusted with herself for the A (she is an old friend to us both - more to H, but me also) he said "she will have to live with her guilt". BARF
