Let her talk about stuff for a while, then leave her alone. Talking about it, then space to feel things out is how women process. Men process over a beer. Don't make her process stuff like a man, allow her to do it like a woman. You can help her in that process.
Holy crap. Glimmerman that advice should be cast in gold and go down in history. That is so exactly it. Can you come talk to my H for me?
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.