apparently, most of the "good" names were taken (sadwife, soconfused, whyintheworldisthishappeningtome) .
so being the creative person that i am...i went with something really deep...j/k. i just happened to be listening to music on pandora.com and tried the name...it worked, and voila! now i have a name that sounds pretty cool and could potentially have some obscure meaning.