In 2/4 of our sitches, it seemed that our Hs were ready to start a family, yet we all got pregnant when THEY weren't expecting it.
Gatsby- September instead of December
Piano- pregs after 14months of trying. H was a bit stressed by the end and suggested (lightly) a pause in treatment/trying. Happy it happened naturally. 8 months pregs - H says he 'regrets' having baby with me.
Me- got pregnant a week after I ended birth control and a week after WH said he was ready-we both expected it to take a few months
BD- you are the exception I think because your H has been ecstatic about being a dad and was thrilled to learn you were pregnant until a few months later but now he is excited again(is that right?)
2/4 have OWs for sure (Me and Piano)
2/4 have Hs who are adamant about being involved as a dad (Me and BD)
2/4 aren't sure how involved their Hs will be (Gatsby and Piano)
4/4 were happy in their marriage before pregnancy
Actually think I just said the same thing but a different way! Any other tweaks, Gatsby and BD?
