Nice chatting to you this morning! I think a pat on the back is in order! I'm proud of you, it took a lot of guts to come out and say how you feel and what you want!
Now we have to wait and see what your H decides, according to his response, I think he might be back home soon. So let's cross our fingers!
Hi Cathy. Well, you and I did similar things to our hunters as they left town. In fact, you could have been here and I could have been at your place....go read my last few posts to see what I mean.
I think that you did a great job opening up to your H. I am proud of you. He may have packed up some extra stuff, but maybe it was just in case he needed to double up - LOL! Anyway, he can unpack it just as easily.
While he is hunting he will have a lot of relection time and I am sure that your words will echo in his head. Great timing on your part - and I suspect you had a little help from above too.
I hope you had fun at the football and hockey games. I am off to take D8 to hockey practice and then to a local nursery that has a holiday lights ceremony tonight - the kids love it!
I, like you, can't wait until my hunter returns to see if we have taken another step forward. I am especially anxious as our anniversary is Nov 23 and then the holidays swing into gear...
Have a great evening. I'll send a prayer up for you and yours.
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
I know you posted that you felt "duped", but your H gave off all kinds of red flags from day 1, that this move home was not necessarily permanent, didn't he?
I agree with the others that you did REALLY well with your parting comments to H. I've noticed that time and time again he appears to be trying to convince himself, or goad you into contradicting, his belief that YOU have no feelings left for HIM.
He's got your real feelings to process this weekend, and his own as well.
Wow, isn't it amazing how similar some of our sitchs are? No wonder Hallmark has the right card for every occasion! I'm trying not to think of the holidays, wish I could skip right over them!
I've been thinking of getting my little guy into hockey, but don't know if I'm ready for the time committment yet. My niece who is 18 has played hockey since she was four. It hasn't been till the last couple of years that I've really learned to enjoy and understand hockey. College hockey is especially exciting.
