It does in a way feel as if my h is blaming me by sayinig "I don't deserve this and I deserve to be happy and he has made me miserable". I find it interesting that he is making the decisions for me.

The even more puzzling thing is that he WILL NOT admit to the ea or whatever it is. I've pointed out so many things and he will just deny it over and over. He'll tell me, fine if you want to call me a dirt bag then fine.


M 35, husband 35
M 10
Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count
Home 12/2010-present