Thinking About Life after Divorce

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Hey Thinker, good to hear from you again! I was following your thread for quite some time and then you went on break from the boards. Your wife seems really messed up and probably hanging on to the fantasy relationship with the om, just like my wife! I saw how much time and effort you put into your marriage and how she never tried at all. Again, just like my wife.

I decided to move on and I proved it to myself and her when I forced her to speed up the last paert of our final decree. She was confused but it did not really phase her. 2 weeks later I started seeing a woman from my divorce group. It is very refreshing to be with someone who actually understands how to work in a relationship. I am a hot commodity and she knows it! We both have an understanding about infidelity and we have both been through it. It has been about 13 months since the bomb and it feels ok to me.