this is interesting. Just out of curiosity, why a letter would be rewarding her?
Is it letting her now that I still care even if the letter clearly states that i'm moving
on with my life?

I know you have a good point, Kimmie. Gno, thinks the same and it makes sense.
It just hurts so much not being able to tell what you feel. It's like being in jail and not been able to give your side of the story. It's really tough. If I walk away like this, she'll never know how I felt. She may not care to hear, that's her problem. Should that stop me from doing what I feel I need to do to get closure? Is she really going to have the last word on this?


Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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