I have exposed to the Pastor and his wife, two head elders and their wives, and a couple of my long distance friends. That's it.
The OM is not working, but living off of savings and real estate investments. He went back to school for nursing, but I think he's finished with that now.
OK, exposing to your long distance friends will do nothing to end the affair. Unless they are prepared to show up at OM's door to intimidate him or something... which I doubt will work anyways.
Expose to everyone at church... but more to the point.. HOW are you exposing?
What are you telling them and what is their response?
And ya, I would definitely expose in public at this point... It reads like you are being very delicate with your wife's reputation and OM's... While they soil yours...
