What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[newmama]

So Gatsby, was just rereading to see that you planned to get pregnant starting in December, but it happened in September instead (you didn't think you'd be fertile but you were).

Did your H ever accuse you of doing that on purpose- getting pregnant before December (lol- you know what I mean)?

I have to tell you that in 3/4 of our sitches, it seemed that our Hs were ready to start a family, yet we all got pregnant when THEY weren't expecting it.

Gatsby- September instead of December

Piano- your H started to say you should wait until you moved countries and you got pregnant the natural way, unexpected

Me- got pregnant a week after I ended birth control and a week after WH said he was ready-we both expected it to take a few months

BD- you are the exception I think because your H has been ecstatic about being a dad and was thrilled to learn you were pregnant until a few months later but now he is excited again(is that right?)


2/4 have OWs for sure (Me and Piano)

2/4 have Hs who are adamant about being involved as a dad
(Me and BD)

2/4 aren't sure how involved their Hs will be (Gatsby and Piano)

4/4 were happy in their marriage before pregnancy

But all of us were abandoned by our Hs during our pregnancy.
OK sorry I don't know why I tried to point all those things out...just trying to understand. Trying to find clues!