lees, you sound good! I'm so happy to read that you did indeed start the legal proceedings. That is taking care of yourself first and rightly so.

Find me on FB...I'd love to hear about your cottage! BF and I love Scotland and are planning our next trip there. We had planned on going for Hogmanay a couple years back but that's when the bomb dropped and I was NOT going to reward his cheating by going on vacation with him so I cancelled.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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