I was not serious when I put that out there, talking to ow, what would it solve...nothing.
Tonight, before H heads north, as he's getting into his truck, I'm going to say the following:
I know you're confused and in pain over all that's happened. I just want you to know that I do love you and I believe that we can make our marriage work and heal from all of this pain. I know that you need time to figure things out for yourself and I am going to step back and let you do that. I love you and will try to still be here for you once you have sorted everything out. Give him a hug and tell him to have a great weekend and walk away.
