WAH Comes Back Home in the Middle of the Night

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Cathy,
Okay, I finally had a chance to catch up since yesterday. Wow! He is confused. I think you're doing very well with it all too!

I agree no talking to OW, and don't make him choose you or her. He's itching for a reason to run. Again, just like Ellie said....if he wants out, let him choose all on his own, with no help from you. His guilt to deal with.

I'm on the other side Cathy, and I promise you....If this doesn't work out, you will have NO regrets for the stand you take today. It is well worth it. Plus, you become a stronger and better person because of it.

You've alredy learned so much, and you are amazing. You will continue to find that same sort of strength. Just wait until you see the kind of woman you can become! That will happen no matter what. I can tell, because I can already see it happening in you.


I hope you don't mind if I borrow your thread for a moment...I just saw a post under Infidelity/Jealousy....by 3lw4me. Her H just came home, and she could use some help. I think the group here is just what she needs. I hope some of you will stop by her thread.

I'll be back Cathy. I have to get back to work for now.

Keep the faith!