If you have a concrete question, why not get a DB coach? On here you are going to get every one and anyone to respond. It's understandable. For you to get defensive about people not answering your EXACT question of what you want is condescending and arrogant.
Take it for what it is...FREE advice.
As for the first question . . . I'm unemployed right now, can't afford one. Bummer, but true. You're right about getting advice from any old wannabe therapist though, and it is understandable. I'd think it would also be understandable that when people make wildly laughable assumptions . . .sorta like Gooch just did . . . might bring out a little of my 'condescension and arrogance'.
Now . . . back to the topic . . .
Life may be short, but . . . well . . . it actually IS short, now that I think about it . . . . particularly when compared to planetary formation and stuff.
