rysmom, why can't you understand that the things that your H and is saying and doing are the kind of things that MLCers do while going through their crisis? Why can't you understand that you need to detach and step back from these things to protect yourself and your S?
Detaching doesn't mean that you stop loving your H, it's a protection for you. If your C and everyone who has posted to you keeps giving you the same advice why aren't you trying to follow it? What are you getting from this that keeps you doing the same things over and over?
It's time to concentrate on you. You can't fix your H, but you can work on fixing yourself.
