Just popping in to check up on you. I'm so sorry that this is happening, I know it feels so heavy right now. I think you have two very wise voices guiding you right now--I hope you listen to them.
The OW really sounds like a piece of work. I wonder about her--how twisted do you have to be to prey on someone like him? She's playing him like a fiddle, and so incredibly vile. I can imagine that he is too afraid and embarrassed to reach out.
Take your time. Make sure you know what you want. (((hugs)))
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
