Answering your question now-- he is very avoidant of his mom right now. She worries me a bit because she's so smothering. Even today her FB page is full of "mothers always love unconditionally" and stuff like that. Which I imagine is a veiled message to WH. BUT I don't think he ever friended her.

I don't know his most current thoughts, of course, but she is vowing to help him through this. I hope it helps and doesn't push him farther away!