She has never told me to leave her alone. She told me she could not become dependent on me, which suggests to me she is trying to break away. I am trying to give her all the space she needs.

I thought I did use the straightforward approach with my note yesterday. Maybe Glimmerman is right and I have told her I would be there for her enough at this point.

I am at a loss.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012