Anyway think of it this way (I always try to put a positive spin), H loves you enough and has enough respect for you that he doesn't want you to keep dealing with his stupidness.
I am not so sure I would believe this. If there was a lot of respect, would a WAS in an EA keep having the EA?
Could it just be that they still cling to the fantasy of the EA but realize that the old excuses they were making don't work on you anymore? Anyway, it still seems like they are blaming the LBS (it's your fault I can't come back because you don't deserve this).
What I don't here in that explanation is the spouse owning that it is they who are giving up on the M.
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