WCW, You have done a great job in keeping all of the balls in the air and also dealing w/your h's crisis. They do tend to "inch" their way back and when it's home for good, it will take additional time for him to finally feel like he's back in his own skin and safe once again. Your patience has been great!
With all of this going on, how are you doing these days? Please continue to post....you are making progress even if it he continues to "inch along".
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.